It isn’t uncommon for gay men to link their first experiences with meth use to early hookups, often with older men. The volatility of these relationships allows the experienced to convince or tempt the inexperienced to give it a try. Due to the excitement, apprehension, and physical attraction entailed in such relationships, it can feel “impossible to say no.” This is often what habitual users prey on to immerse young men into this destructive lifestyle.
Newcomers to meth use among gay circles often have sexual frustration and a desire to “fit in.” However, for most people, being approached by a veteran of the scene can be a very intimidating experience. Many gay men who haven’t yet tried meth may also be closeted and looking for a way to explore their sexual orientation more.
Methamphetamine is also incredibly compatible with the hard-partying lifestyle because it provides a dramatic surge in dopamine and serotonin. The resulting euphoria is highly addictive. Additionally, the “happy” feelings spike so much during the high that the comedown can be emotionally devastating for many. This encourages the cycle of frequent meth use, which facilitates the escapism of constant partying.